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RecommendationI have known Sarah since she started training and have been involved in her training both as a Clinical Hypnotherapist, Life Coach and NLP practitioner and as her continuing supervision as a Level 3 (Advanced) EFT practitioner. Sarah is a complete natural at this work. She is empathetic, creative and dedicated and works to a consistently high standard. It has been a real joy to watch Sarah develop in this field, her enthusiasm for her work is infectious! I would highly recommend her gentle, yet intuitive, approach to anyone looking for a skilled caring practitioner to work with. I've had the pleasure and privilege to both train and work alongside Sarah for a few years now - her work is always brilliant, professional, fun and inspirational, but once you know her, you would expect that because that's who she is. I highly recommend her as a practitioner of the Lightning Process. Dear Sarah, I am writing to say a big thank you on behalf of all the patients, and not forgetting the staff for all your dedicated time you so kindly gave to the Hospice. Your treatments benefited all who came to see you, helping them cope physically, psychologically and also spiritually, and for this we are extremely grateful. We would like to wish you great success. It has been a pleasure working with you Sarah. Kind regards It has been a great privilege to meet and work with Sarah. She is an intuitive and accomplished Practitioner with great generosity of spirit where her sensitivity, acute listening skills, maturity and technique resulted in life-enhancing changes. I cannot recommend her highly enough and would be happy to be contacted for any further feedback. |
BereavementSarah volunteered at Hartlepool and District Hospice for a year working as an EFT practitioner with Day Care Patients, Carers and staff in helping with the emotional impact of terminal illness. Although their stories are too personal to display here as case studies, Sarah helped the patients and carers with feelings of loss, anger, fear, and grief. Everyone is different and Sarah has helped people to face their illness and make the most of their time left, their feelings of leaving their family behind and worries about how they are going to cope, fear of dying and feelings of being punished. She has helped them to also resolve events that have happened in the past that were still troubling them and felt they wanted to resolve. Dear Sarah, I am writing to say a big thank you on behalf of all the patients, and not forgetting the staff for all your dedicated time you so kindly gave to the Hospice. Your treatments of EFT benefited all who came to see you, helping them cope physically, psychologically and also spiritually, and for this we are extremely grateful. We would like to wish you great success. It has been a pleasure working with you Sarah. Kind regards Case Study: A client had experience the loss of her mother and was finding difficult to cope with her feelings of loss after almost a year and still missed her terribly. We worked together over a period of a couple of months using EFT to work through the different aspects of her grief and the different times of year - first Christmas and Mother's Day without her. Through working together she discovered that she had gained a new role in her family through the passing of her mother. She realised that she was now seen as the head of her family even though she still had close relatives that are older than her. She realised that all her family now came to her in times of need and celebration, and that she had a lot of qualities that she had admired in her mother and her family felt that, and from this she was able to feel that her mother was still with her but in a different way. She felt she now had a new role in her life that she welcomed. Although she took pleasure in her new role, her feelings of loss were still great. After continuing to work through her feelings of loss with EFT, she was able to start enjoying life again, something she thought she would never able to do. In fact at her last session she had just come back from holiday after having a fantastic time, and although she still missed her mother, she felt she had now turned a corner. |
Test PerformanceI had two EFT sessions with Sarah whilst taking my motorcycle lessons. This was to help me with my anxiety prior to test day, which was centred around not having to tell friends and family that I had failed my test and to improve a manoeuvre that I was worried about. Sessions with Sarah increased my riding confidence and improved my performance, which resulted in a pass first time! |
Business Coaching / Peak Performance / Professional / ConfidenceI have attended a few sessions with Sarah on a one-to-one basis and (every time) I have left the building charged with positivity and a resolute ambition to succeed!! Having met Sarah at many networking events, I have discovered for myself that her dedication to her field is second to none and her ongoing training clearly exudes commitment and a desire to learn to further help her clients. My own business has grown in leaps and bounds due to my new focused approach – it's amazing what the universe brings to you if you only expect good things to happen! Having studied self-help and personal development for 18 years now, I was the classic ‘big on theory' and not putting the theories into practice– Sarah has been the catalyst to motivate me to do just that and the results speak for themselves. So, indeed, for a skilled and caring practitioner, I would categorically and wholeheartedly recommend Sarah Marshall! "Sarah and I jointly presented a workshop to a dozen local business leaders in June of this year. I was hugely impressed by Sarah's ability to hold an audience and impart useful and meaningful strategies in a way everyone could instantly understand and apply. As a fellow Master Practitioner in Neuro-Linguistic Programming, I've attended and delivered many seminars and presentations over the last 5 years. For me, Sarah is one of the best I've seen." Sarah is fantastic. I found our sessions together extremely beneficial. Sarah. Thank you for yesterday. My potential business allegiance meeting went really well this morning as I was so much more confident! "I have been a client of Sarah's on a one-to-one basis. I went to see her for a number of sessions earlier this year to get some clarity about what I really wanted in my life. Thanks to her help, I realised that I had fallen into the trap of being really busy. But I had unwittingly mistaken being busy for moving forward in the way I wanted to. With the clarity that her questioning gave me and the insights which quickly followed I was very quickly able to get back on track. Although Sarah challenged my thinking, she did so in such a supportive way that I felt very comfortable with her approach. And I got great results very quickly. I'd recommend Sarah to anyone who was looking to find a supportive and insightful coach to improve any area of their life." |
Eating / Food Issues and Weight LossEFT and NLP from Sarah helped stop my bad eating habits of several years including binge eating. Her positive approach left me feeling supported and in more focus and with looser trousers! Dear Sarah, I just thought I would give you a progress report following my session. The session was of great benefit and I found that your expertise went a long way in alleviating the nervousness that I at first felt. I feel a great improvement in the areas we dealt with and can apply the principles used in the session in my own time! Can I just say that I would not hesitate to recommend your service to my friends and family as the benefits for me have been exceptional. Please feel free to use this letter as an endorsement of your service. Thank you very much. Case Study: A client, who is at the top of their profession, had been unable to eat fruit for 40 years and they had found this embarrassing in social situations. The thought of eating fruit caused visible revulsion. After two sessions they were able to happily eat and enjoy one kind of fruit and were looking forward to trying others. Case Study: A client came to see me regarding weight loss and they were also on anti-depressants and were depressed about their weight which caused them to comfort eat - they felt they were trapped in a comfort eating/depressive vicious cycle. We started working on what caused them to eat with EFT. One of the reasons was the client felt it was their only "me" time and felt guilty if they had any other "me" time. The eating also numbed them and it was the only thing that the client felt they had to look forward to. We worked on the guilty feelings of the other "me" time so that they could take this time they needed without those feelings. Also, when a "bad" food was eaten then the day was classed as a "bad" day and then a "bad" week so we worked on this so that they could eat different foods without spiraling into binging. The client then lost over 6lbs in a week that had included eating some of the foods that had been previously been classed as "bad" and had lead to binging. The client was concerned that the previous behaviour would return so we looked into why they had been "filling" up on these foods. We found that they were trying to fill an emptiness caused by an event in the past and working through this enabled them to fill it with something positive and continue with their new beliefs and behaviour around food. Also see Sexual Abuse |
M.E. / Chronic FatigueSamantha and her Mum's Story "I'm well, I'm well" it is hard to believe after 7 years of ME, the last 5 years spent bedbound in a darkened room but that is what learning the Lightning Process has done for me. I was taught the process by Sarah who was brill at explaining everything and made it a lot of fun to learn. The process is easy to learn but it is hard work to do and you have to be dedicated. I soon started to feel the effects only a few hours into my first day of training and I have hardly stopped since. On the first day I sat up for hours and even played a long game of monopoly after 4 hours of training. On the second day, after a two hour session, I went out in my wheelchair for a walk, no pillow or sunglasses which were the norm pre LP (if I managed a wheelchair trip as my one big activity a week). I also phoned my grandma to tell her I was well and I played another game of monopoly, I went to bed exhausted but the normal kind not the ME sort. On the third day I came home after the final LP session, it was an hour long car journey, which I sat up for, no reclined seat, no sunglasses, no pillow, all of which I'd had on the journey 3 days before. I got home and played a game with my gobsmacked sister who just kept looking at me as if she couldn't believe I was real. We watched a DVD film all the way through and had a chinese take away and I still felt so well that I phoned an ME friend who just kept saying wow, wow as she was so amazed at all that I had done. I cannot say how grateful I am to Sarah for teaching me this wonderful thing that has given me my life back and has also shown me the real me in a way. I am also using LP on my anxiety which almost prevented me from going for LP and I would advise anybody thinking of taking the training to go for it but be prepared to work hard and it is sooo worth it, getting a life you love. Thanks Sarah you were great. Four Weeks later: Here are just a few of the things I have been up to; I have been to the pub in the village where I live a few times building up my social experience, I've played on the swings at the park, I've been shopping to Tesco (one of those great big ones), I've been out for a meal with my whole family and I'm starting to get on my feet again with the help of some crutches. It's brilliant getting my freedom back again. I'm able to keep in touch with friends and start to make new ones which is something I've missed. Although I've had a few moments where I've done anxiety, Sarah has helped me and has been great at reassuring me I'm doing great as well. Two Months later: 1 year later: Samantha's Mum - Heather: I should start this testimonial with a thousand smiley faces as that is how I feel. Last week I had an anxious 19 year old daughter who had been ill with ME for 7 years and bedbound for the last 5 years. Now I have a confident ME free young woman who is full of life. This miracle was brought about by the Lightning Process training that Samantha received from Sarah. Samantha started the LP training lying down in bed in a darkened room and just 3 hours later she was sitting on a sofa, no sunglasses and eager to learn more. She has never been in bed since, other than to sleep which she does soundly each night about 10pm. We both found the training interesting and fun and easy to follow. Sarah is a lovely person and an excellent coach and made sure we understood everything before moving on to the next section. Sarah has the double advantage of not only having had ME herself but also having recovered using LP a few years ago, so she understood exactly how Samantha was feeling. Sarah had already helped Samantha get ready for LP, by using EFT over the phone, as Samantha had been forced to cancel her first appointment for LP due to anxiety. I think it helps having a parent, partner, or close friend to sit in on the training so that they can reassure you afterwards if doubts or anxieties creep in. LP is not a quick miracle, you have to be determined and work hard at the process even though the physical process itself is easy. Samantha is still wheelchair bound as she has no leg muscles after 5 years in bed, but she can now sit up all day, she is no longer light sensitive, she can eat foods that have previously made her feel ill and she can even tolerate iron supplements, as she is anaemic. It is not just her health that has improved, her confidence has increased too, she phones people, writes letters and likes meeting people when we are out and about. I would recommend LP to anybody who has ME, we have watched about 30 other young people go for LP and have the same remarkable results, some had only been ill for a year or two but others had been ill like Samantha for 6 or 7 years and had been severely affected, now they are all ME free and getting their lives back. Thank you Sarah for all your help, you know how much you have changed our lives I just hope you can do the same for lots of other people too. 1 year later: Even we find it hard to accept that a year ago we had to wash her hair 10 days before going to Darlington for LP to make sure she wasn't too tired from the experience. LP certainly works and has given Samantha her life back. It hasn't all been easy as at times progress in physical fitness has seemed slow to Samantha compared to some recovery stories. You have to keep reminding yourself just how far you have come and realise every recovery is different and is affected by other illnesses, relationship issues, personality etc. We were a little worried after Christmas when Samantha had a rough patch and even though it wasn't tiredness like ME it was still scary seeing her struggle again. Then we stepped back and thought about what was happening in her life and we were able to see it was her attempt to come off anti-depressants that was causing her problems. What I am trying to say is LP is fantastic but it isn't a miracle you have to work hard, first at doing the process, then at reclaiming your life but it is so worth the effort. I think having had the LP experience has made Samantha determined to try new experiences even when she is nervous and it is a valuable self help tool for lots of situations. If anybody is reading this wondering if they should give LP a try all I can say is YES go for it, it sets you free from ME and best wishes for the rest of your life. Tríona's Story Hi my name is Tríona, I'm 19, I'm from Dublin and I had ME for about 16 months. It's over a month now since I learnt the Lightning Process and so much has happened since then…so much GREATNESS! I remember driving to the LP the first morning and I felt so nervous. In the weeks leading up to LP I had felt a little nervous but I had mostly felt excited. Excited that this could be it, this could be the start to a new healthy me! And it was! It is! But I guess that morning I was afraid of what if it doesn't work? But once I went inside and started to learn LP I felt more at ease. I found it really helpful that Sarah herself had had ME before and so she could identify with how I was feeling. It was great to be finally understood and also to understand what was happening in my mind and body! Before LP I was more of less housebound. Apart from trips to the doctor and occasional efforts to go for a walk I sat on the couch. My friends were great and they visited me regularly. My family were also great company. But I didn't feel like me! After the long LP session of day one I went for a 15 minute walk (something I hadn't done in a long time and especially not after 4 hours of learning!). By day two my 15 minute walk took a detour into Topshop where I bought a dress! 15 minutes turned into 25 or 30 and I hadn't even noticed! When my Mom phoned from Dublin she couldn't believe I'd been shopping! When I came back from shopping I forgot to flop on the couch, instead I sat at the table chatting with my cousins. I even forgot to think about CFS! I went to bed that night not able to sleep because I was so excited! The day after I came home it was my Aunty's 50th and we had a party in my house. I stayed up until 1:30am laughing and talking!! Later that week it was my own birthday and I was able to have some friends over which felt great. Since LP I've also spent two weeks in France with my family where I swam EVERYDAY! I also went shopping, went out for meals, went for walks! I even bought a wetsuit and a boogie-board and ran off down the beach to the sea! I think my family were in shock! Everyone's noticed a huge change in me (and I have too). My bother says he notices me singing again! I swam 30 lengths of the pool the other day! I've been out with my friends. I'm also applying for my provisional driving license. So in summary LP was very very very worthwhile for me! If you are in the process of applying for the Lightning Process, I wish you the very best of luck if you do do it! Thank you Sarah for all your help and support! I'll never forget my three days in Darlington or how great I've felt since! Mark's Story I had been ill with ME – or “doing ME”, as I have now learned to say – for over twenty years. Indeed, I had never been well from early childhood, and in some shape or form had probably been doing ME all my life. I had tried various therapies – conventional and complementary – with limited success. My GP had found that anti-depressants and anti-anxiety medication were beneficial, but the effects were always partial and short-lived. These medications gave me an initial boost, but weren't enough to bring about a permanent breakthrough. I tried Mickel Therapy (a derivative of Reverse Therapy), and again this gave me a boost, but the improvement petered out, and I ended up back where I had been previously. I had most success with a therapy called EFT (which is described elsewhere on this website), and when I discovered that Sarah combined EFT with Lightning Process (about which I had heard some highly positive reports), I had an intuition that this combination might offer not just the usual temporary boost but a lasting impetus towards real and deep-seated recovery. The LP course in Darlington - which included much EFT (Note from Sarah: People who already use EFT sometimes request incoporating EFT into their individual session. I also use EFT when people need extra tools in moving forward. If you would like me to incorporate EFT into your session please mention when booking) - was brilliant. It gave me that initial boost (as I had expected) but, when things began to go wrong, I wondered whether the old pattern of improvement followed by relapse was repeating itself. This time, however, I had support of follow-up phone calls with Sarah to fall back on, and was also becoming more skilled at applying the LP and EFT techniques I had learned on the course. After a couple of rocky months I started to improve again. I am not yet completely recovered, but am far healthier, happier, and more positive than I have been at any time during the last twenty years. The cycle of improvement/relapse has finally been broken, and I am now moving forwards all the time. Most importantly, I feel I now have the tools to maintain that improvement, to nip any signs of relapse in the bud, and to use my LP and EFT skills in more and more creative ways in order to keep moving forwards and to create for myself a healthy and positive and fulfilling life. Thank you, Sarah, for teaching me these life-changing techniques. Amy's Story Hello, I did the Lightening Process training about 10 months ago and my life is so very different now it's sometimes hard to believe I was diagnosed by the medical profession as having M.E. for 8 years. Before I started the LP training I couldn't walk more than a few minutes without dizziness, pain and discomfort, and now I'm a regular hiker and mountain biker on the hills and mountains near where I live. I used to experience so much exhaustion after even short journeys as the passenger in a car it would take me hours to recover, but now I can happily read in a car on a 6 hour drive and be ‘with it' enough to have fun when I reach my destination. Two months after LP training I did an evening class at college, 6 months after I started a part time job, was socialising lots, getting fit, and learning a new language (whereas 6 months earlier just getting a sentence of my own language together was often a challenge!). Now its 10 months later and I continue to get stronger each month, I now am a volunteer dance teacher, training to be an EFT practitioner and easily could work full time in the shop I work in (dealing the with the general public all day long!) but I chose instead to have 2 days to learn new things and study to set up my own business as well as enjoying my new found freedom. LP wasn't an instant miracle for me but in the weekend of my training I went from using a stair lift to walking at least a mile and climbing lots of steps and I felt confident to eat foods that usually affected me and I could go shopping in a busy town, which were all little miracles for me really. I went away from the training knowing that I had the evidence that I could always use the LP technique to get rid of my symptoms. It was then up to me to use it enough when I got home to prevent the symptoms appearing in the first place. This took a few months of trial and error, but I always could use LP to ‘mop up the spillage of any adrenaline overload that accidentally flared up'. Before I did LP I had already heard about and used EFT to get rid of my Hayfever, so I was already very open to the power of the body and mind that was beyond accepted medical convention in this country. Now my new found friends out there in the ‘real world' have told me that they find me inspiring! Having missed out on lots of the normal young adult adventures such as university and moving out of home and going travelling, I have sometimes felt overwhelmed at all the things I want to catch up on. However, once I realise that this just puts pressure on me and causes adrenaline I use the LP or EFT to put things in perspective, (because even young people I know who have never been ill think that I'm trying to do too much all at once!) I know it's just something I need to do to find out where my limits are, but really just the freedom to go where I want, when I want and to be earning my own money and staying up dancing till 4am, that's the ‘living the life I love' that the LP has helped me to achieve. I can't thank Sarah or Phil enough for pointing me in the right direction towards health, but I still consider that it was, and still is 100% my responsibility to make it happen. Katherine's Story I think one of the best ways to show what the Lightening Process has done for me is to describe what I used to do before, and after coming on the course. Before I met Sarah I was bed-bound, and so I had two sessions on the phone which enabled me to be able to get down the stairs, so I could make the trip to Darlington. The morning of the first day of the course I was able to hobble from the front door to the car (while holding on to my Dad). By the end of the third day I had gone for a wander into Darlington with my Dad, and ended up taking a detour to the cinema on the way home. Now it is nearly three months later, and things are getting very interesting, I seem to have got myself a life, and it is great! This week I have been to a free festival in Newcastle for my friends birthday, attended a afternoon marketing course, helped out in the library (where I now volunteer), and it is only Thursday! The rest of the week I will be doing housework and ironing, going for a day out with my boyfriend, going to another free festival, and completing my assessment for my course on how to write web pages, and probably many other things besides! Going on the Lightning Process course is the best thing I could have done. I would also highly recommend taking someone with you, I was lucky as my Mum was on the course too, so we got to bring my boyfriend and Dad as extras. Their support has been invaluable, as they are very good at giving me a hand if I get a bit stuck. The Lightening Process has totally changed my, and my families lives, I have a future again, and for that I cannot thank you enough. Susie's Story The past eleven months have been a rollercoaster ride for me; I have managed to experience my worst and some of the best moments of my life. However I feel I should go back a little further to explain where I think my M.E stemmed from, in 2003 I caught glandular fever a few weeks before I was going to start my law degree which I never seemed to fully recovery from and any physical exertion (e.g staying up late with friends dancing) would leave me more exhausted than normal for the following day or two. In September 2006 I was starting my Honours year and I was organised and raring to go. Then I fell ill on the 28th September and I became progressively worse until May 2007, it began with profound tiredness and shaking from feeling so weak at Uni that I only managed to make it to a week of classes but I persevered with my studies at home for another week or two until even reading became an impossible task for me. My immune system became very weak and I began suffering from lots of throat infections and a bout of flu that was so bad (and made me so weak) my parents had to stay off work to look after me. As people with M.E know no two days are the same and on a good day my mum would take me a drive in the car and then perhaps I would walk around the street where I live, on bad days these tasks were impossible. Every day for seven months I had at least 10 hours sleep a night and slept for 1-2 hours every afternoon just to keep my energy at a level where I was comfortable to sit and talk to my family. Unfortunately no doctor had any answer (or cure) for me and I was eventually diagnosed with post viral fatigue syndrome. My family were very supportive and spent hours trawling the internet or talking with friends to find any treatment that could improve my situation. We went to a nutritionist who wanted me to drastically change my already healthy diet however I ended up feeling worse some days because I was taking so many supplements. I was beginning to feel that there would be no end to this and was heartbroken at the thought of being like this for years. Throughout my illness my family and friends were fantastic, I couldn't have asked for a better support network. In March, my mum's work colleague brought a newspaper article in about the lightning process and how it had helped Esther Rantzen's daughter who suffered with M.E for years. Understandably at the beginning I believed it was too good to be true but my parents researched it and read the success stories (like you are doing now) and felt that it would be worth my while trying the lightning process. I was a little reluctant to believe it could reduce my symptoms of M.E as drastically as the other sufferers because I was worried I would be the one it didn't work for - this felt like my last chance of becoming better so I read more about it and booked into the three day course with Sarah. It was like having a weight lifted off my shoulders speaking to Sarah as she had suffered from M.E she knew exactly how I felt without having to explain everything to her. My mum attended the sessions with me which has helped a great deal because when I started beating myself up for not progressing at the speed I wanted she reminded me of how well I had done already and got me on track when I needed support. Sarah taught me how powerful the mind is over the body, after the first session I decided I didn't need my usual afternoon sleep and on the second day I walked for three miles around York without any pain, discomfort or tiredness. I finally felt free and in control of my own body at last instead of M.E dictating my every move. Every day for the next two weeks I woke up excited because I felt like I had been given a second chance at life and was determined to build my physical strength up to what it was before. Unfortunately my immune system was still weak and I managed to catch another throat infection which took two courses of antibiotics to get rid of. I felt a little disappointed (realising I wasn't invincible!) but phoned Sarah straight away and I was back on track using the lightning process within a few days and really haven't looked back since! I am building my immune system up by focussing on a diet rich in nutrients and I'm taking some supplements every morning - I now know that a cold is just a cold and a virus is just a virus and will not lead to M.E returning. My life has been turned upside down this year and I am looking forward to starting my Honours year in September, I can go out with my friends like a normal 21 year old, I have joined a running class and am taking snowboard lessons (everything which I promised myself I would do when I got better). I felt it was important to share my story because I believed since I had ‘only' had M.E for 7 months the lightning process wouldn't work as well as people that have had it for years. I wanted other M.E sufferers to know that if you are at a stage in your M.E journey that you don't want it anymore and you are prepared to work at changing then you can, regardless of whether you have suffered for two months or twenty years. Life couldn't be any better which is all thanks to a newspaper clipping and of course - Sarah. Lauren's Story I did the Lightning Process with Sarah about six weeks ago now; and the results have been really amazing. I can honestly say it has transformed my life. Six weeks ago I was able to venture out of my flat only once/twice a week and was very limited in terms of walking and levels of activity. I also had a carer come to dry my hair, make my meals and do my shopping Mon-Fri. My daily routine consisted mainly of ‘rest' periods and several naps during the day. That all seems like a distant memory now. Now, I am out at least once a day, I have travelled on trains across the country on my own to visit friends (with a suitcase in tow too!). I rarely sleep during the day and I have regained a social life again. The course itself is very interesting and enjoyable and Sarah is an excellent practitioner. It's not easy, and for me the results have been gradual, but consistently so. I can say with 100% certainty that I won't ever have a relapse again – and if I'd said that to myself before the course I would have laughed if off as ridiculous. I feel I have a way to go with my recovery, but as everyday and week passes I have achieved more and more. Like I said, it's hard work at times but if you trust in the process (and the results speak for themselves) then you can stay on the path to recovery. I am building up my strength and stamina gradually – physically, mentally and socially. I have to remind myself I have spent the last two years pretty much bed bound so things will take a little while to return to normal. The great thing is I know that it will. I would have written this sooner but I've been a bit busy doing other things!! At the moment I have a horrible cold so I'm not feeling particularly good. However – it does feel good to have a ‘normal' cold and to feel like my body has an immune system that can do what it needs to do. Previously, I would have panicked if I had a virus like this, but it really doesn't bother me now. Other than I'd rather be well and out doing things that is!! I would highly recommend the Lightning Process. It was worth every penny – how I feel now is priceless. My family and friends are still a bit stunned by my progress, and to be honest so am I at times! So…. A big thank you to you Sarah! Anna and her Mum's Story My name is Anna I'm 15 and before doing the Lightning Process 3 weeks ago I had M.E. for almost 3 years (since December 2004). I suffered from extreme tiredness, poor concentration, poor temperature control (very cold feet), and dizziness and at my worst not being able to speak simply because it took too much energy. Now after completing the Lightning Process I no longer do M.E. For the first year I had many trips to the doctors and the hospital, never being any help as the doctors didn't understand or were able to help. About a year ago I started having acupuncture which was a big help but I didn't recover. I heard about the Lightning Process through AYME and a friend's friend who had recovered from M.E. using the Lightning Process. When I first heard about the Lightning Process I was unsure whether it would work or not as I didn't understand what it was. I was quite sceptical about it and if I had done the Lightning Process then I don't think it would have been so successful as it has been now. Earlier this year I was starting to improve and I saw some articles in AYME Cheers magazine about people who had recovered using the Lightning Process and wanted to find out more. We looked on the internet and found Sarah's website, filled in the application form then got a call from Sarah saying she had a place in a few months. We set off (me and my Mum) the day before to travel the 2 hour car journey to Darlington (which is about 80 miles away), the furthest I had been in 3 years! We arrived at the hotel very tired. The next day we went to the first session with Sarah for 2 hours before lunch then in the hour we had for lunch we walked to a café (further than I would usually walk) had something to eat then walked back, I had no symptoms, previously this would have wiped me out. The next day I woke up early about 7am (I used to sleep until 9-10am), went to the Lightning Process then went shopping for over an hour! I had the final session with Sarah then travelled home. My family couldn't believe how well I looked and I don't think I have stopped smiling since I got back! After returning home I have done lots, I have walked most days, been shopping a few times, redecorated my room and have been able to do pretty much anything I want (within reason!). I haven't had to use the Lightning Process much since I have got home but I know its there if I need it. I am hoping to return to school in September, and continue doing what I am at the moment and enjoy being a well, M.E. free person. Anna's Mum - Sandra: Watching Anna suffer over the past three years has been really hard for all the family knowing that she should have been enjoying herself and doing all the things a healthy teenager should be doing. Therefore seeing her recover over such a short space of time has been like watching a miracle happen. Obviously it will take a little time to build up her physical stamina but what she has achieved over the three weeks since having the Lightning Process would have been out of the question previously without pay back of days if not weeks. Anna had the Lightning Process at a time that was right for her and it worked. All I can say is that it's absolutely fantastic having our daughter back. Good Luck to anyone who wishes to try! Darren's Story Well what an interesting week it has been, I went along to the LIGHTNING PROCESS this week. Started out on Sunday got myself all worked up and stressed out before my wife and I had even started out! It took about 2 hours to get to Darlington where the Process was taking part. Anyway got there ok, booked in to hotel and flaked out for the rest of the day.. My first Session was on Monday morning and I was a bit sceptical to say the least, didn't really know what was involved in the whole Process. It is mainly about P.M.A (Positive Mental Attitude) learning how to change the negative thought patterns and it does really WORK. This is not to say it's all in the mind, it's an illness with major physical symptoms but by studying the above core element of M.E. we can start to see how the mind and body powerfully influence each other. It is a vicious cycle and can go on for years. The reason why this eludes us is that it's produced by unconscious patterns. Once these patterns are broken our body quickly starts to respond. Straight after the 4 hour session, my wife and I went for a walk around Darlington for about half an our. Doesn't sound like a lot but I would not have done that before. I would have been too tired and stressed out to even try. We got back to the Hotel and I still didn't flake out, just relaxed and watched T.V. I would have normally gone straight to bed! The Second day was much the same - about a 3 hour session and again I didn't just got back to the Hotel and crash out afterwards. My wife and I went for a meal with another couple, one who was also doing the process. So in all I did 3 hour session and about 2 hours out walking and talking (I would never have done that before) then it was back to the Hotel and relax. The Final day was a one to one session just going over what I had learnt which lasted about 1 1/2 hours. After that we went for a meal, then arranged to meet the husband of the the other person on the course. We had met at the earlier sessions and had been out for a brew. We had a good look around the centre of Darlington while his wife was in her session. So we walked around for a 1 1/2. Again there is no way I would have even thought of doing such a thing before the Lightning Process . Then we all met up with his wife and my Wife and I said good bye to the couple. Then it was back to the hotel and a trip back home. Even after that full day I didn't crash out! just stayed up and watched T.V. So in short this whole Lightning Process does work! You just have to BELIEVE! So a Special thanks to SARAH MARSHALL. Maureen's Story When I came on the course I was struggling to cope physically and mentally with the demands of looking after my daughter who also had M.E. and was bedridden. I was trying to work part time, unsuccessfully, and help around the house. I already suspected there was a link between anxiety and a flare up of symptoms as I had noted an increase in anxiety when Katherine became worse as obviously this was very worrying. So just at the time when I needed to be fit and healthy to look after her the M.E. would kick in. At Christmas I started to do a lot of relaxation and made a huge effort to not do anxiety and my symptoms did decrease but were still there. So I knew there was a strong link between the anxiety and the M.E. Then I heard about the Lightning Process through an article in the Daily Mail. It fit in exactly with what I was trying to do but seemed much more effective judging by the testimonials on the website. So my daughter and I both booked a place on the course and waited six long weeks. I had a phone call session with Sarah to do some tapping (EFT) as I was finding the idea that I could get rid of M.E. after 15 years a bit mind blowing, especially as it was going to be done without medication, and I was going to do it myself! A difficult thing to come to terms with - if I could get rid of it myself why hadn't I done that in the past? The answer was easy - I didn't know about the causes and I didn't know about the solution - the Lightning Process. So I went on the course with my daughter. I took my husband along with me as the person who knows me best (a great idea - his support, and Katherine's, has been invaluable over the last few weeks and it saved me having to explain everything!) and learned about my brain, adrenaline and M.E. I then learned and practised the Lightning Process. Fantastic! I felt a physical improvement straight away and this has lasted and increased over the last few weeks as I have become healthier and fitter. Last week I walked 20 miles over 3 days on holiday in the lakes. It would have been more if the weather had allowed me! My head is much much clearer. I can use big words! I am working part time consistently and coping with shopping and housework easily - nothing is a problem now. I've even started a Tai Chi class. I don't have to look after Katherine at all in fact sometimes I don't even know where she is! (She is an adult so this is OK.) And I don't worry about her because she knows how to do the Lightning Process if she needs to. I did the Lightning Process a lot in the beginning but I use it less now unless I am conscious that I don't feel right mentally or can sense anxiety. Then I go through the process, sometimes alone, sometimes with Katherine or Geoff, identify the problem, get rid of it, feel great again and get on with my life. This sometimes happens if I am coming up against a new situation, such as meeting new people, taking on more tasks at work. I am trying to add new things in slowly so I don't overload myself but I think I've actually lived and done more in these last six weeks than I have in the last 3 years. I am so glad I went on this course. It has changed my life completely. I am fitter, healthier and much much happier. Thank you Sarah for being a great coach and a big thank you to Phil for coming up with the Lightning Process. Mandy's Story I was diagnosed with CFS in 1999 and at that time my symptoms were slowing me down but I hadn't reached a total standstill, so kept pushing myself to the limits. Gradually over the next 7 years I deteriorated to the point where there were only a few windows of `feeling well`. I had no quality of life and ran to every little glimmer of hope that I could find. Hypnotherapy, MRI scans etc etc. For me this running around like a headless chicken looking for a quick fix just helped to confuse me more as to what was going on. ‘Menopause', said my mother, ‘Depression', said my doctor, ‘Diet', said the nutritionist. I was told about the Lightening Process by a member of our local ME group who since doing the course had improved dramatically. This all made sense to me as I am a great believer in the power of the mind. I made the call and it was that call that has helped me to understand the bigger picture and how we all have control over our minds and bodies. Working with Sarah was a pleasure and has left an indelible mark on how I now view my life. At all times she was calm, professional and inspiring. Without her I doubt I would have faced the demons that were lurking away in the recesses of my mind. I thought I had them all under control but like so many of us I had just stored them away because the thought of facing them was too painful. Facing them with Sarah using EFT helped me to see events from a different angle and the relief from that has been tremendous. It has enabled me to move forward with self belief and confidence in a direction that brings fulfilment and enjoyment. If you are reading through these testimonials and thinking `Should I try this?' then please, take that step forward. Make that call and get your life back on track. Judith's Story After three and a half years of being debilitated by M.E. I am back to full fitness after a 3 day course! How amazing is that! I owe it all to a Phil Parkers Lightning Process taught to me by Sarah Marshall. Four years ago I was working full-time as a Reception Class teacher in a very successful, thriving but stressful school. In May 2003 Ofsted certainly played a part in adding to the stress. The effects of a brilliant report, instead of allowing us to relax knowing we were doing an excellent job, added pressure to keep up the pace and build on excellence! I have twin daughters who were then 9 years old and, luckily, a very supportive husband. I wanted to be the perfect wife and mother and career woman. In the summer of 2003 my GP suggested I stop taking HRT, that was prescribed by a different GP for an early menopause, but didn't tell me to do it gradually. I had a very bad reaction- feeling miserable, alone, bad tempered, having hot flushes night sweats etc. In September I went back onto HRT and my symptoms reduced but pressure at work continued. I was normally a fit and energetic person who never caught colds or illnesses then one day I started coughing. The next day I could hardly move. The doctor diagnosed a chest infection but after 2 weeks I was still very ill. I was given different antibiotics then after another week of feeling terrible I was diagnosed with pneumonia! After taking more antibiotics I started to recover slightly but then relapsed with another chest infection ending up in hospital on Boxing Day. With treatment using intravenous antibiotics I was feeling improved but weary and lethargic. The doctor told me I had Chronic Fatigue syndrome but I thought it meant I was tired! He gave me no other explanation or suggestions. I decided to try and “shake myself out of it” and get back to work and life. After 3 months away, I went back to work part time to let myself in gradually. My work situation had changed and I was told to work with a different age group, in a supportive role of another teacher and the hours I had asked for i.e. mornings only, were not available. I had to work all day on Fridays and do all day duty! I was furious, upset, disappointed and disillusioned. I lasted 2 1/2 weeks then was very ill with pains in my joints, aching muscles, and horrendous headaches, inability to walk far and at a very slow place. My head was ‘fuzzy', my memory terrible. I then used the internet to find out more about Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and saw it was in fact M.E.! After a long talk with my doctor the outcome was he could do nothing for me, I just had to rest, eat well and eventually in 6 months - 20 years I would probably get better! I learnt to rest, eat healthily and I also spent a lot of money on a nutritionist, massages, homeopathy and I slowly improved. Nine months later I attempted another return to work but lasted 2 weeks before another sever relapse! I then gave up work! I now had no money to spend on alternative treatments but I treated myself with reiki. I was very slowly improving with rest and pacing myself to do one small activity a day-coffee with a friend, small bits of housework, short walk with the dog etc. I found omega 3 tablets were a tremendous help with brain fog! Three and a half years of this existence and then I read Esther Rantzens article about her daughters recovery from ME! I immediately went to the internet and looked up Phil Parkers Lightning Process. I had read about it previously but I had thought it was saying ‘it's all in the mind'. I was sure it wasn't. I knew I was ill. I didn't want to be ill. I was desperate to be well! I read the information and the description of the adrenaline being exhausted leading to a cycle of illness-worry-etc was so logical. All I needed was to stop the cycle! I rang Sarah Marshall at Raincastles in Darlington , chatted about the Process and applied. After a month I was on my way to Darlington . In that month I had started to feel real hope, excitement and felt much more positive about my future. I was on my way to recovery! Sarah was FANTASTIC. She talked so enthusiastically and informatively about the process and, using a variety of methods, lots of laughs, a few tears and after 1 day I felt brilliant. I walked all over Darlington and felt full of life and energy. After the three days I returned to my family as if the last 31/2 years had been wiped away! I have continued to use the process, when needed, and after just 3 weeks I know I can do so many things-whatever I want! My family and friends are thrilled. I AM BACK! The real me has returned from the awful place of M.E. And I won't be going there again! Sandra's Story I had suffered fatigue for a year, the first 6 months was so chronic I didn't have the brainpower to complete a sentence. The next 6 months I did have periods of recovery and I spent a small fortune trying anything and everything to get well. But the relapses were relentless and I was loosing my confidence of a complete recovery. I had previously been a very fit and healthy 50-year-old representing Great Britain in the Age Group Triathlon in Madeira and I was determined to get my life back. Then almost a year to the day I first suffered fatigue; I was given a newspaper article about Sarah and the Lightning Process. Sarah had previously suffered with ME for 5 years, she knew this technique worked and I felt very comfortable with her. Sarah helped me take my life back and within a week I knew I no longer had fatigue. Sarah is trained in other methods of treatment and is very intuitive and also helped with problems in my life that I wouldn't have believed I could be helped with. Some times emotions emerged and she sorted them in minutes with EFT. I cannot stress just how much Sarah has helped improve my life. Things I thought about me that were imprinted since birth and could not be changed – have been, I am more confident and relaxed and patient and all I went to Sarah for was my health back! I didn't just get my health back, my whole life has improved and my family are benefiting too. Within a week of my first visit to Sarah I had jogged 3 times. The following week I walked 6 miles then 2 days later jogged 6 miles and the same evening took turns piggy backing my 5 and 7 year old grandchildren up a steep hill, a mile and a half long. The next day I spent 3 hours in the kitchen cooking for 10 people. (This is one area the family are benefiting - previously I had only ever cooked for 6 - I would have been stressed, even if I had the energy). I would recommend any person who doesn't love their life to visit Sarah. 6 months later Sandra reported: Feedback 18 months later: Sally's Story I first became ill with a very nasty dose of flu which I just could not shake off and which left me with extreme fatigue and pain. I have an excellent GP who diagnosed CFS/ME but was unable to offer any treatment except pain killers and “pacing” which had very limited results. I was determined that ME was not going to rule my life and kept working full time. However it soon became apparent that I would have to reduce my workload and thanks to a very supportive boss I managed to keep working. Unfortunately in January this year I had to reduce my workload still further and was feeling so exhausted that I had no energy for home life – I would be lying on the sofa falling asleep each evening – no fun for me or my family. I could see no end to the ME and felt as if I had no control – really I was just waiting for it to end without knowing when or how that would happen. Just before Easter my sister told me about someone in her village who had been to see Sarah for Lightning Process and how successful it had been. A little research on the internet and a phone call to Sarah soon persuaded me to give it a go, which I did the week before Easter. This was the best thing I have done as it has completely changed my life. I no longer consider myself to have ME – I am now just very, very unfit and tire easily after over a year of very little activity. However I am pain free, can now do twelve minutes on my exercise bike, walk on the beach for hours at a time, go out for meals with friends and stay up late and still have energy the next day. I have just been to Edinburgh for the weekend with friends – we walked for eight hours with only two half hour food stops and then went out for a meal till nearly midnight – unthinkable only a few weeks ago. Lightning Process has given me the tools to be active and cope with tiredness – lovely, normal tiredness and not ME exhaustion. Yes, it is sometimes an effort to do the process but it is always worth it – my girls feel that they have their mum back and my husband can't believe how well I am. My thanks to Sarah – I will always be grateful for her help and support. 3 months later Sally reported: Flavia and her Mum's Story It's amazing. I'd been ill for about 4 years and it was only at the end of last year that I was diagnosed with ME. When I first heard about the Lightning Process I wasn't sure if it was something I wanted to do, I was fed up of seeing all these doctors and people and them not being able to help me. So I didn't want to put my trust in it, in case the same thing happened again. But I read all the testimonials of other people that had recovered from ME and the results sounded so amazing that I thought it was definitely worth doing. My mum and I went up to see Sarah and it was a long car journey but well worth it! Sarah came to see us at the house we where staying in the next day, she was so nice and friendly that it was fun doing the Lightning Process. It is something you have to be completely sure you want to do and be dedicated to but the effects are amazing. After the first 2 sessions I felt so much brighter and had some energy already! We went out for a walk after Sarah had gone and went to the pub that evening too. When we got back I managed to run up the stairs!! I hadn't been able to do that for years! It was great! On the second day after the sessions we went into Darlington, went shopping and had a pizza it was so much fun as I felt great and had the energy to do it all! That evening when we got back I went for a run! I haven't been able to go out for a run for years it was so great! The next day I got up and went for another run before breakfast! I couldn't remember I time when I'd had so much energy. I had my final session with Sarah and it went really well. Since I've been back home I've ridden my horse, ridden my bike, played tennis, been running most days (though I've had to take it a bit easy so my muscles can catch up with me!), been out with friends, sleepovers, done some school work and hopefully will be back at school really soon and I cant wait! Thank you soooooooooooooo much Sarah for everything! Two Weeks later: Flavia's Mum - Ellie: My daughter, Flavia, aged 14, is now free of M.E. thanks to Sarah and the Lightning Process. Flavia had been ill for nearly 4 years and we had been floundering around for most of that time trying to find the answers to all her symptoms. She had so many tests and supplements and food sensitivities and even a tooth removed to rid her body of mercury in the filling (all of which, in itself, was very stressful to her). She was diagnosed with M.E. in Dec 05 and it was that “label” that led to us hearing about the LP. A chance conversation with a neighbour told us of a boy in our village that had recovered using LP so we researched LP and found Sarah's website. Flavia was anxious about seeing yet another person about her health but after reading the accounts of some people who had success with LP she was happy to go ahead. Sarah was so nice on the telephone and made sure that Flavia was determined to do the LP and then suggested places to stay (we live in Wilts.) We opted for the cottage in Gainfield, just outside Darlington which was perfect and Sarah came to us for the sessions. She was extremely understanding and very good at explaining the process and Flavia grasped it very quickly. After a day of pretty intensive work, Flavia was already feeling better and looked much brighter, although pretty tired (but not her usual exhausted self). That evening we went for a walk by the river and Flavia felt the urge to climb a tree! That night she went to sleep at 11pm instead of her usual 3.00am and woke at 8am – not seen for a very long time! The second day was shorter, reinforcing the day before and by the time Sarah left, Flavia was doing really well. We went shopping in Darlington and had lunch out and then we went for another walk by the river and then Oh My God Flavia went for a jog!! On the phone that evening, Flavia's father couldn't believe the difference in Flavia – her voice had changed. Another good night's sleep and Flavia was up on the 3rd day and out for a run before breakfast. Sarah arrived for the last session and was so good at helping Flavia with how to deal with future challenges (which includes returning to school). We left Gainford knowing that we had 2 hours of follow-up phone calls with Sarah, so we have fantastic on-going support. FLAVIA LEFT GAINFORD WITHOUT M.E. I'm writing this 12 days after coming home from Darlington and Flavia has continued to thrive. She has been sleeping well, ridden her horse, jogged, been out with her friends, played tennis, I can't stop her. She has started to do some school work at home with the hope that she can go back full time in about 2/3 weeks. I hope that if you're reading this, you will go ahead and learn the Lightning Process with Sarah and change your life. It's changed ours! Thank you so much to Sarah. Two Weeks later: Abraham's Story "Will it work for a 62 year old?" Megan and her Mum's Story Hi, I'm Megan age 13 and I had M.E. for 2 years. It started with a virus and I just didn't get better. I saw lots of doctors and a nutritionist who put me on a strict candida diet for a year, it was really hard, but I was very determined! It helped my immune system but I didn't recover from M.E. I heard about the Lightning Process in the AYME magazine and contacted a girl called Chloe who had done the Lightning Process and no longer had M.E. My Mum took me to see Sarah and over 3 days I learnt the Lightning Process. It was pretty easy but I did find a few things difficult to understand, but Sarah and my Mum helped me. It's a week on and I'm feeling great, I have bags of energy and I'm always hyper. Having energy has really changed my life around, before when I was doing M.E. I was always tired but now I have more energy than I can remember, I feel like a new person as if I had been reborn! I still have aches and headaches and my concentration isn't brilliant but I'm getting there, the aches in my legs have improved and I'm doing more than I'm used to, out with my friends and having fun. The headaches used to last all day, but now I get about 1 a day. And all that is just after a week. I can't imagine how I'm going to feel after a month! I'm now on my way to be doing all the things I've missed, back at school, shopping with friends etc. For 2 years I've been so looking forward to the day I'm out and about doing everything a normal person does, and now I am free at last, there's no more M.E. (miserable existence) coming my way!!! Megan's Mum - Vicky: Hello I'm Megan's Mum, it's a week since Megan leant the Lightning Process with Sarah and things are looking great. The process is simple once it's explained to you. Megan applied it to her life and has seen the benefits. It's not a quick fix as she has to be consistent and put the work in but because the results are so quick it's really rewarding and makes you want to work at doing the Lightning Process well. I feel that Megan is starting to live the life she wants to live. It's hard for me to imagine how ill she was when I see her leaping about the place now. I can't wait to do all the things we've missed out on as a family with Megan being actively involved. I may regret saying this after this weekend as she is having a sleepover with 5 of her noisy friends!
Two months later: Lauren and her Mum's Story Dear Sarah, I would like to let you know how grateful I am for all your help with Lauren. As you know, before we came I was quite sceptical about the therapy and could not understand how the effects could be as immediate as others were claiming. My concerns about what the treatment entailed and whether Lauren would be left feeling let down and the effect that would have upon her were however allayed the first day that we met you. Having already been through CBT and it having gone totally over a then nine year old child's head and having a totally negative effect, I was concerned that this may occur with the LP too. I was however proved wrong. You are a natural at setting people at ease and working with children in a friendly way that they can understand and relate to. Lauren has lost almost two years of her childhood as a result of this awful illness. I felt out of control and very down myself, watching her childhood pass her by. On the day we arrived, Lauren was virtually unable to go out without her wheelchair. By the end of the first day my shopaholic ten year old enjoyed an hour and a half walk round the shops, something she has not been able to do in almost two years. She got to sleep in 5 minutes instead of 3 hours, was up early the next day and full of beans. Having been unable to read even a children's large print book she read OK magazine from cover to cover. To say I was amazed at the effect the LP had on her is an understatement. The progress continued, on the second day she ran round a castle, calling at me to keep up! The third day she enjoyed a day out at the seaside and lots of walking. I saw Lauren get her life back over those few days, which was truly amazing. She returned to school full time having hardly been able to manage half an hour home tutoring. Seeing her do something as normal as go to school with her friends after so long left me in tears. A big change from ending up in tears before seeing her friends doing such a small thing as walking to school knowing how miserable Lauren was not being able to be a part of what should be her everyday life. On her first day back she took part in her class assembly and went swimming. Less than 3 weeks after the LP she completed a 4 mile sponsored walk to benefit other young ME sufferers without any problems (in the pouring rain). We are now about a month on and Lauren is continuing to live the life of a happy ten year old child. I remain stunned at the transformation. Lauren of her own accord talks about her ME in the past tense, she hardly ever has to actively use the LP any more, she is just getting on with her life, which is all I ever hoped for. There is a lot of scepticism and cynicism out there about LP and I have to admit I had very real doubts myself before we saw you. What helped me was speaking to other sufferers and carers who had personal experience of LP and who it had worked for. I have now seen with my own eyes a total transformation of my daughter from a debilitated, virtually housebound child to a child who is full of energy living life to the full again within days of having seen you. I cannot thank you enough. If you wish to use this letter for others to consider I have no problem with that at all. Thanks again.
Feedback 10 months later: Sydney It gives me great pleasure to endorse "The Lightning Process". I had this illness for twenty two years and after three days with Sarah I feel a different person. All I can say to anyone with ME is that you have nothing to lose and so much to gain GO FOR IT. Kathryn's Story Going for the Lightning Process (LP) has been the best thing I have done, yet it began as the most daunting, having been in bed for 95% of the last 16 years. I had been ill since the age of 14 and am now 30. During this time, I was pushed near the edge of being able to cope quite a few times, but particularly during the first part of this year with an intensification of panic. Out of the blue a friend told us that the LP had helped her so much. I wanted to go and it became a light at the end of the tunnel. I was nervous about travelling and was exhausted upon arrival. I managed to sleep and was ready to begin the next morning. It felt as if once I had committed to going and doing the LP, something took over. For me, it felt like I was being taken and I felt so weak I just floated with it. I found learning EFT before I went invaluable. It supported me with the emotions of facing it and also during the days away. I continue to use it regularly as emotions come up. We stayed in a self-catering cottage in a pretty village. Meeting Sarah put me at ease as she is just as lovely as my friend told me she was. As Sarah has been through her own journey of recovery, I felt an unspoken understanding and respect. This was a wonderful advantage to me, feeling I could be entirely open and express my thoughts, feelings and tears without being judged in any way. I had done many years of mind, body, spirit reading and healing and as I worked through the LP sessions, it slotted in with so much and clarified other areas. I learned so much and where I had been confused before, I came away enlightened. Compared to the efforts I had put in through previous years, or indeed to the hidden strain that coping with such severe anxiety and illness creates, to learn the LP and apply it hasn't been a problem. It's like a breath of fresh air, mainly because the process became very clear to me as I sensed the positive physical differences very quickly. I wasn't certain at what rate I would find I could do more but sure enough, it has come since about the 2 nd evening onwards. I have strength to build back and after so long lying down, I am gentle with myself. The changes have been amazing though, being downstairs sitting on the sofa every day, feeling part of life wearing clothes. Also, as the weeks pass, I have been getting to the shops, able to buy gifts for friends, family and myself! Having dreams come to life, like getting to the beach after so long. It's only 5 weeks! The ability to breathe a sigh of relief, know that ahead lie good times and think how precious a gift that is to me. And all at my own pace, no comparisons, everyone has a unique path. But I'm on that path and happiness that was missing from my life for over ten years is back. I've smiled so much, my face looks like me again and my eyes sparkle. But it's also my way to live again, with my health and strength back and growing daily. I got to do that and actually be Kathryn again up & about! I'm so thankful to everyone that helps me to do that, especially Mam, Dad and Sarah. Update 9 months later: I sense this balance continuing into the future. I tend not to have to think ahead unless I want to imagine what I'd like to do, as I focus on enjoying the moment. Walking is increasingly easier and I enjoy shops more as a result. After 17yrs when I didn't walk anywhere (apart from sometimes the bathroom) it is marvellous and enables me to feel a returning independence. It'll gradually grow, meaning I can partake in more. I find there's two different types of doing things. One is the bigger occasions/trips, the other is what you're doing day to day and both are so much better. Sitting at the computer now I'm keeping a blog to be in touch with friends and make new ones. We've been out in the car and its been great to see the seasons. There's a growing strength within my body that comes not just from using the muscles and them building but from how I feel about my life and how much calmer things are. I have been making things from paper and fabric, this is something I can develop and do more of as I learn and get better at it. This is true of the process too, it's a skill that gets easier with time and I know it will remain an important part of how I'm progressing. The EFT is also such a benefit. Sometimes I use EFT and sometimes the LP. It is only understandable that after such a traumatic time in the past that there is emotional healing to take place as well as physical, both an intricate part of my individual journey. Here is a new photo of me even more myself than the last ones and happy. I would like to thank Sarah for her support and compassion towards me and for "being there" and doing what she loves, she's a shining example. I wish you all well. Lucy's Story If you are looking at this website for the first time, you may be thinking as I did, this cannot be true, if so why is anyone still suffering? The answer is that people have not looked, or they see and do not believe. Gina's Story I had originally been diagnosed by a consultant and after 3 years was virtually housebound, only being able to drive a short distance on a good day and often having trouble walking around the house. Before going to see Sarah, having tried other treatments, I had reached the stage where I would have tried anything to improve my situation and after hearing the Radio 2 Jeremy Vine Lightning Process report, it seemed it could be the answer, but at the back of my mind, totally unbelievable. However, with my husband's encouragement, I decided to take the plunge. After the first session with Sarah, my mindset was transformed. Having arrived in a wheelchair, I was able to walk back to the car park and arriving at our hotel, my husband parked in the normal disabled bay, but I told him to park in a normal space, as I was no longer disabled! In view of my improvement, on the next day after my appointment, we went shopping in Darlington for an hour, without the wheelchair. Having returned home, I was able to go food shopping the next morning unaided for the first time in years! I felt fine, no wobbly legs or confusion, just a few aches in my legs from lack of use. My daughter had a major operation while we were in Darlington. A week later, we had her, her partner and 3 and 1/2 year old daughter for a week's stay. Amazingly, I survived it well, and only had one ‘wobble' mid-week. Yes, I was very tired, but not fatigued. I felt able to do much more than I ever could: driving my car again; going for short walks; doing some housework; chatting on the ‘phone, all without any ill-effects! The pains in my limbs, neck and right side had gone, too. Also, I completed a 3/4 hour drive to see my parents and sister, who couldn't believe the change in me! My husband would like to add that he's now got his wife back! Gina writes 6 weeks later: Life is so wonderful now that I have no hesitation in recommending Sarah and the Lightning Process to anyone who is ready for a different approach and willing to commit to it. 4 months later: One year on: I don't need to do the LP exercise very often, but it's good to have it as a back-up, not because I fear ME is returning. I am living proof that there is a way out of ME! Dee's Story Yes! It worked for me. I had my doubts beforehand because I'd tried so many things and nothing seemed to help. At the time I started the LP I could only walk a few yards and was sleeping more than 12 hours a day. I was scared I wouldn't make it through the first day's instruction, but the improvement started from Day 1. My doctor had wanted to put me on steroids to 'kick-start' my immune system and give me more energy but agreed to let me try the LP first; he was astonished to hear that after just a week I was walking 10-15 minutes a day (in the middle of the summer heatwave) and only taking one short nap in the day. Now, four months later, I am doing all my own cooking, I can walk comfortably for half an hour a day. I am driving after six years off the road and can manage two appointments in the day in addition to my regular daily tasks. Thank you, Sarah, for the gentle, patient and encouraging way in which you taught the LP and for being so flexible about the arrangements. Most of all, thank you for giving me back my life! What others have said: June 2007: I've been well since I saw you in June last year - so thank you so much for that! Everything's going great! Thank you so very very much. You are a saving angel! Life seems much lighter and I now look forward and don't go into that dark place anymore. I'm getting fitter, losing weight and looking healthier than I have for a very long time. I admire your work and the depth of understanding you show with your clients and I'm sure you'll continue to help many more people. It's a special kind of person who gives of themselves to help others. A big thank you from one who will never forget or underestimate the magnitude of what you are achieving. Thank you very much for being such an excellent trainer and therapist, for helping me to find my pride and power, for showing me I can "do" choice, and most of all... for being you, Sarah. With love, thanks and respect. Dear Sarah, I am writing to say a huge THANK YOU for your LP training enabling me to get my life back 'on track' after 3 and 1/2 years of ME. I woke up this morning buzzing with energy and the joy of life and coached myself to do housework - to very loud music! My family are thrilled - this has affected more than my life - my family's as well. The training was hard work but good fun too. So again 'Thank You'. I don't know how to begin to thank you for everything. The results are beyond my wildest dreams. I didn't expect to be doing normal so quickly. Thank you so so much. Thank you so much for helping me to get me energy and life back. Words can't say just how grateful I am. I just wanted to drop you a quick line to say how well I'm doing. I have been doing consistently 'normal' stuff since I left you on Wednesday and it's been wonderful!! Having all this time is taking a bit of getting used to, I can't get over how much I can do compared to before....... I am also finding I am doing the process less as the days have gone on. Anyway, just wanted to say thank you and to let you know you have another success story on your hands! I can't tell you what a difference the process has made to our lives. It's been life-changing! Sarah I am absolutely delighted with the course and the positive benefits I am experiencing. I am very grateful to you. Keep up the good work! It has been so wonderful to be trained by someone who has been there themselves. It has clarified so much. It feels good, my future at last feels good. I just wanted you to know how very much I value your help and understanding. Thank you so very much for being so wonderful through this process. I'm now all set for good health, energy and a full and happy life. Thank you for all your help - feeling much better! I'm now 100% fit and well again. Thanks for your help during this journey to good health - I'm feeling stronger every day! Have a fab festive season - I know I am thanks to your training! I just wanted to say a big thank you for all the help you have given me, I can finally look forward to the future rather than worrying about what the next day may bring me. Keep up the excellent work! It was lovely to meet you and thank you for all your help, kindness and understanding. Thank you for making such a difference to so many people. We were impressed how professional you have been from the moment we met you and how high the standard of training was. |
Phobia / FearsRat Phobia - Having had a lifetime phobia of rats, even to the point of being unable to watch them on television, after just one session with Sarah I can look at and think about rats without the feeling of revulsion I had in the past. I am surprised and pleased with the result, especially as I was a complete skeptic before my session! |
Sexual AbuseSarah has worked with a number of clients where sexual abuse was the core issue to the problems they were experiencing in their lives. As these are extremely personal stories we have just written up one as a case study to protect identity which we recently received feedback regarding working with a sexual abuse memory. Case Study: A client came to me unable to lose weight and control their eating habits. We started working around the time when they had started putting on a lot of weight with EFT. An incident had happened where a person had said to their friends, and loud enough for the surrounding people to hear, how fat my client was. This had lead to the client to become even less confident about their self and their eating habits had become more out of control. After working through this memory, a few more memories came up in their past of being called fat by their sibling. Once we had worked through all the memories of being called fat, the client's eating habits had not changed which is unusual. The client booked in for another session. Another memory had come up that the client had not previously connected with their weight/eating issue. It was a hazy memory of being sexually abused by a close family member. The client was sure it was a one off incident and was extremely anxious about working through the memory, and the excellent way in which EFT works is that we can resolve the intense emotions around traumatic memories with the least amount of pain to the client. We spent the last session resolving the emotions around the memory until the client was able to comfortably talk about it; the client had not previously shared this with anyone. The client booked in for another session to double check that the memory had been cleared of all emotions but a few days before the session I received a note thanking me for the work we had done together and that they were comfortable with the memory and felt they now could move on and change their eating habits on their own.
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Sports PerformanceAs a competitive cyclist who trains hard and races harder, I often have tired/sore legs and can't relax, with Sarah's help, I now sleep better and can focus more, my legs recover quicker and I feel I have more energy. Thanks. |
Study AnxietyCase Study: A client was unable to accept recognition for the highest grade achievable in the qualified course the client had undertaken as they had needed to study for an extra year due to stress which lead to illness. This had left them with a feeling that they didn't deserve it due to the extra time that they had had compared with the other students on the same course. The thought of further study caused them a lot of anxiety. After a session of EFT the client felt that they deserved their result and qualification and that study could be enjoyable. I received a call from them a couple of weeks after our session, they reported that their study was going really well and were very pleased and surprised how effective our work together had been. They had previously believed that the result we got wasn't possible. |
Work / Life BalanceFeedback on session with Sarah: Through talking to Sarah about how I was feeling I began to understand what was missing in my life. I was allowing work to be all consuming leaving no time for me, and my interests. What interests did I have? I used to enjoy painting and had bought brushes and paints about two years ago but had not allowed myself time to take it up again. I used to design and make my own clothes many years ago and have been keen to start sewing again. Talking to Sarah made me realise that I was not giving myself any creative outlet all my energies were focused on work and I felt guilty about taking time for any hobbies. Working from home meant that I was never away from work and I always felt as though I was on duty. Sarah helped me realise that pursuing my own interests would make me less stressed about work and more relaxed. Since our session I have produced two paintings and made a pair of trousers. I feel more confident and creative than I have for more than twenty years. All testimonials have been displayed with the permission of the owner. |
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